Our Children in These Times of Change

Creative parenting: through the eyes
of your child by: Laurie Lankins Farley

“Life is a process of creation, and you keep living it as if it were a process of re-enactment”  – (Conversations with God – Book 2)
As a parent, it is important to live life moment to moment, experiencing the journey that you have created with this new life, your child! However, most of us re-enact what we experienced as children, not the other way around. We re-enact parenting behaviors rather than create new parenting skills.  Spiritual parenting is a new concept.  It is a different approach to the traditional authoritarian style of parenting that society has handed down generation after generation, one which involves a new way of seeing your child and a new way to experience each other’s humanness.

I am writing this article because I have noticed so many parents parenting from the past, rather than from a natural progression of their life experiences.  Most children are intuitive and have natural human senses.  But it is often the case that parents do not allow their children to manifest their own thoughts and ideas.  Instead, many parents dictate to children their own ideas about what they think life should be like or look like. Sometimes it is okay to follow their lead, allowing them to direct us in creating their futures. This will give us, the parent, more tools to work with as we move toward a new way of parenting. By listening to our children, we gain a new, creative way of parenting rather than re-enacting our own past experiences.

I realize that this little tad bit of information might seem confusing at first, but it is quite simple actually. I am suggesting that you step out of your mind…out of your past…and look into the future through the eyes of your child…into forever.

What does your “forever” look like? “Forever” for you may mean until the end of this physical life.  To some, it could mean through many lifetimes for all eternity. To me, forever is a continued source of energy, one that exists in both the spiritual realm and the physical realm.  It is a never-ending story, a continuation of your Soul’s creation, not a re-enactment from the beginning of this physical life…unless it is. My forever often doesn’t look anything like I think it should because I am constantly creating it.  I am creating that which has been given to me, through me, and releasing the re-enactment of what I think was given to me.

I was given a wonderful example of this from a very good friend who longed to raise her son in a small town, because that is how she grew up, until one day she realized that her past is not the place to draw upon in an effort to create a life for her son.  Rather, it was an attempt to simply relive what was meaningful and memorable to her. Creating a new direction with her son was a better path for both of them, and way more fun than simply doing over her own life.

By not re-enacting your childhood, what your parents created for you, you are embarking on a life experience that will fill you and your child/ren with new ideas, new hope, and keep your parenting “life spark” alive inside of you. Now, I hope you understand that this is merely my idea of a creative forever.  There are no rules, no restrictions, just life unfolding. Will you allow a new unfolding to occur in your family?

My realization as a parent: My child and I can Co-Create the forever that we wish it to be.

(Laurie Lankins Farley has worked with Neale Donald Walsch for approximately 10 years. She is the Executive Director of his non-profit The School of the New Spirituality and creative co-director of CwGforParents.com. Laurie has published an inspirational children’s book “The Positive Little Soul.”  She can be contacted at Parenting@TheGlobalConversation.com.)


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Spirit Removal

The truth about what's hanging around by: Laurie Lankins Farley - The Pure Intuitive.

No one likes to talk about it, but it is a very common practice in my world.  Energy is everywhere and when this energy attaches itself to you, or someone you love, it can cause illness, behavioral problems, a deep feeling of depression, etc.  Not all energy is created equal,  just like people it is all different. For example, perhaps  un happy spirits, a person whom had their own spirit attachment while living has now left the planet and the un seen energy that crosses has doubled in it's magnitude, Now being more likely to attach their energy to us. This creating layers of un balanced energy that none of us wish to feel, experience , or have any control in our daily living, make sense?

Most individuals live their lives with a spirit energy surrounding them or attached to them and never know it. Some of the things that create a doorway for un wanted negative energies are:  Drinking alcohol,  drug use, emotionally  un balanced, poison foods  (the list is long) and emotional abuse. The abuser usually has energy attached to them from their past, due to the fact that the layers of energy from , what I call "build up" increases and therefore create what our society calls, "a vicious cycle" or, past down through families, etc.

For me, removing energy from a client is common practice. I have removed hundreds of spirits / energies from homes and properties. I have closed portals that contain several lost souls who wish to remain in the security of their horror, I have released souls that are being held agains their will and removed the layers of energy that can plaque our homes, our families and ourselves.  This is not a small deal, this is  the truth about what is hanging around. This is why we must know how to recognize these energies, be responsible for the energy we carry and do a daily practice of love and light.

​(~Laurie Lankins Farley - has been widely recognized for her gifts as a Psychic Medium, a Paranormal Investigator, an internationally know deep energy Intuitive and as the Pure Intuitive Parenting Expert. She has worked with, and assisted people, parents and families all over the world. Laurie  has held sessions/readings with known celebrities from all walks of life).

A pure intuitive is someone who cannot help but receive every single message sent by their intuition. It is someone who is always tuned in,  always knows how everyone in the room is feeling, and always knows when there is fear, joy, or anger, whether it is expressed or not.  A pure intuitive has no choice but to act on an intuitive hunch because the feeling behind the hunch is so compelling it requires action.  A pure intuitive is keyed in to the earth and knows when there is the slightest change in status quo, the slightest shift toward something positive or negative occurring, and acts accordingly. The pure intuitive always goes inside and checks internally to make sure a decision is resonant with intuitive wisdom. A pure intuitive always has an open heart and would be unable turn off an empathic response. There might be a few people in the world like this, but most of us have been systematically conditioned to behave in dissonance with our intuition.  
                                   ~ Marta Williams